Diamond rings are dazzling, but there’s another type of ring that brings a much bigger thrill — cock rings. They add an extra level of spice to the bedroom and even make the person wearing it feel like they’ve gone up a size or two.

But if you’ve never used one, you probably have some questions. Like what does a cock ring do, exactly, and which partner enjoys it the most during sex? 

At Quinn, we know a thing or two about toys, tricks, and treats. Here’s how to rock your (or your partner’s) socks off with cock rings. 

What’s a cock ring?

Cock rings are exactly what they sound like — rings that fit snugly around the penis. Some people even call them cock and ball rings when they’re wide or stretchy enough to include the scrotum. 

A cock ring’s primary function is to prevent blood from flowing out of an erect penis. But they don’t totally restrict blood. They just slow it down, which often results in an extra-hard erection and an enhanced sexual experience for both partners.

Some assume this type of sex toy is just for people suffering from erectile dysfunction (ED). And while cock rings do work well for those dealing with ED, they’re a great tool for anyone looking to spice up their sex life and explore new sensations. It’s just a question of finding the best cock ring for your unique situation.

3 types of cock rings

The cock ring market is buzzing (sometimes literally) with options. Here’s a breakdown of the different types:

1. Soft and stretchy

Think of soft, stretchy cock rings as the welcoming committee for this penis-focused sex toy — kind of like comfy jeans for your junk. They fit most sizes and consist of materials like silicone that whisper sweet nothings to your skin. Whether you’re rocking your ring for solo play or sliding it on for the main event with a partner, this option is always a safe bet.

2. Adjustable

If you have commitment issues, adjustable cock rings make it easy to find the perfect fit with no strings attached. They come with sliders or snaps, catering to your desire for a tighter squeeze or a more relaxed fit. This level of customizability is ideal for people looking to experiment with different levels of constriction to see what works best for enhancing orgasms and sexual performance. 

3. Metal 

Not fit for first-timers, metal cock rings are ideal for connoisseurs — the cock ring lovers craving the same type of unforgiving embrace common in BDSM. This ring type provides a firmer grip around the penis and testicles, significantly enhancing erections and the orgasms that follow. There’s no “one-size-woos-all” where metal is involved, so proper sizing is key here.

What do cock rings do?

We’ve already touched on the primary function of this delightful category of sex toys. Now, let’s take a more in-depth look at how wearing a cock ring enhances both pleasure and performance.

Enhance erectile function 

If you’re struggling to keep the flag hoisted, cock rings just might do the trick. By restricting blood flow, they help maintain a firmer and longer-lasting erection, perfect for penis-havers frustrated with the speed or endurance of their hard-ons.

Delay ejaculation

Planning a sex marathon? Cock rings apply pressure, which makes many people take longer to ejaculate. This paves the way for extended intercourse sessions — and often more intense orgasms for both partners.

Enhance orgasms

For many people, cock rings intensify the pressure enough that both parties experience one or more explosive orgasms.

Improve sexual performance

With the potential for longer-lasting erections and delayed ejaculation, cock ring users often notice improvements in their overall sexual performance and stamina — another reason the benefits are for more than just the person wearing the ring.

Stimulate both partners

Have we mentioned that this sex toy isn’t just for penises? Add a vibrating cock ring to the mix to combine the joy of penile pressure with the intense rumbling of a vibrator. Your partner’s clitoris or perineum will be in for a treat.

How to use a cock ring: 3 steps

Using a cock ring is pretty straightforward, but choosing the right one (and wearing it the right way) can make or break the experience. Here’s how to wear a cock ring:

1. Choose the right size

Measure twice, buy once. Ensure a fit that’s snug without feeling like a stranglehold. You often can’t try before you buy, so measure the penis while erect to get an idea of the size you need before adding to cart. 

2. Apply lubrication

Applying a generous amount of high-quality lubricant to both the penis and the ring will make it easier and more comfortable to put on. Choose the best lube for whatever material your cock ring is made from — for silicone toys, for example, a good water-based option won’t degrade the cock ring like a silicone lube would.

3. Slide it into position

If you’re using a soft ring, stretch it with your fingers and carefully slide it down to the base of your erect penis. To include the full package, it’s easier to push one testicle through at a time before pulling your penis through the ring.

3 tips for safe cock ring use

We’ve covered the importance of choosing the right ring size, but what else can you do to use cock rings safely? Follow these guidelines to make sure the experience doesn’t end in regret.

1. Limit usage time

It’s best not to wear a cock ring for longer than 30 minutes at a time. Prolonged usage can lead to discomfort or serious circulation issues.

2. Communicate with your partner

Keeping an open line of communication is a must — especially for beginners. If the cock ring causes either of you discomfort or pain at any point throughout the process, take it off and work together to reassess.

3. Be safe

Last but not least, always practice safe sex. Unless you and your partner are tested and exclusive, slip on a condom after fitting your cock ring to prevent pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections (STIs).

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