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Massager, stroker, or cock ring: Which male vibrator is right for you?
Looking for a male vibrator for yourself or a partner? Here’s a complete guide to our favorite vibrating masturbators for people with penises.
By Quinn · February 12, 2024 · 6 min read
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Think vibrators are just for women? We have good news for you. Penis-having friends and lovers can get in on the fun, too.
If you know where to look, you’ll find a surprising range of pleasure toys for men, like blow job simulators, male dildos, and yes, male vibrators.
Whether you’re shopping for yourself or a penis-having partner, here’s our guide to the best male vibrators and where to find them.
Not all men have penises, and not all women have vaginas. For the sake of clarity, we’ll be referring to the toys below as male vibrators and toys “for men,” even though anyone can use them. They’re just designed for people with penises and prostates.
As long as a type of vibrator makes you feel good, and you can use it safely, it’s fair game for you — whether you identify as a man, woman, both, or neither.
Any male sex toy with a vibrating feature could qualify as a male vibrator, but here are the four most common categories:
Often hailed as the “male G-spot,” the prostate is a gold mine for intense orgasms. Prostate massagers are designed to hit just the right spot, offering the perfect blend of pressure and vibration. Many provide a hands-free experience, and some include a remote control to put the power in your hands (or your partner’s).
Penis vibrators focus on the head or shaft of the penis, or sometimes both. They come in various forms, from simple rings to very elaborate devices. A good penis vibrator adds a whole new dimension to masturbation, enhancing sensations and often leading to more powerful orgasms. You can also use them during sex, but they can get in the way of penetration if they’re too bulky.
Masturbation sleeves are designed to feel like a vagina (or mouth or anus) to simulate sexual intercourse. While the pressure of a snug-fitting male masturbator feels amazing on its own, the pleasure really ramps up when you add vibration to the mix.
A cock ring is exactly what the name suggests — a ring-shaped sex toy worn at the base of the penis or testicles, promoting stronger blood flow for a longer-lasting erection and delayed ejaculation. Vibrating cock rings offer the perfect combination of constriction and stimulation, and they can even provide anal or clitoral stimulation to a partner when worn during sex.
Choosing the perfect male vibrator isn’t just about picking the prettiest toy in the shop. You also have to make sure it fits you well and works the way you want it to. Here are some key features to consider:
No matter what kind of vibrator you’re using, comfort is the key to a good experience. Check the specs to make sure the size is right to maximize both pleasure and safety. It could take a little experimentation to figure out what works.
You’re going skin-to-skin with your vibrator, so what it’s made of matters. Look for body-safe materials like silicone, which is not only hygienic but also gives that soft, lifelike feel. Avoid products with phthalates, a dangerous, testosterone-reducing chemical.
Masturbation is a great source of stress relief, but don’t undo all that self-care by bankrupting yourself on a top-of-the-line vibrator. With a little research, you’ll find plenty of options within your budget — a little buzz goes a long way, and a higher price doesn’t always equal greater pleasure.
Nothing kills the mood like a sex toy dying mid-session. Check the battery life and charging options before buying a vibrator, and read what reviewers say about their experience. And remember that many vibrators no longer require alkaline batteries — if you find one that offers USB recharging, you can keep the fun going without stealing batteries from your TV remote control.
Enough with the edging — it’s time for the main event. Here’s a roundup of our favorite vibrators for men.
This high-end prostate massager is all about sophistication and power. Equipped with SenseMotion™ technology for hands-free control, the included remote control makes it easy to adjust the intensity of the Lelo HUGO’s deep vibrations with just the flick of a wrist. It’s $250, but worth it for the high-tech specs.
The Lovense Max 2 has it all. This $199 Bluetooth app-controlled masturbator sleeve is fun for singles, but it’s even more perfect for long-distance partners who can sync up the sleeve with another Lovense toy to simulate real sex. You can even pair your vibrating sleeve with the VibeMate app to sync its vibrations with your favorite porn.
Unlike traditional masturbation sleeves, TENGA’s innovative Flip Zero flips open for insertion, meaning you don’t have to be erect to get things started. The flip-open design is great for people struggling with erectile dysfunction, and it also makes for easy cleaning — a very desirable feature in any sex toy. It’s also only $99.
We mentioned cock rings’ dual-partner pleasure possibilities, and that’s a benefit Fun Factory leaned into with the $99.99 NŌS, adding vibrating extensions specifically designed to reach the clitoris. The flexible material makes it a true one-size-fits-all cock ring, and you can even slip it on your hand to stimulate your partner during foreplay — or after you’ve had all the fun your penis can handle.
Another fun option from Fun Factory, the $139.99 Manta Vibrating Stroker is one of the most versatile vibrators on this list. You can use it as a stroker during masturbation, wrap it around your head for dual enjoyment during couple’s play, or level up your blowjobs by focusing its vibrations on the base of your penis while your partner sucks the tip.
Fleshlight might just be the most well-known brand in the male masturbator game. Cleverly named for its flashlight-like appearance, the hard case stores a removable inner sleeve, keeping it clean and discreet.
Fleshlight offers two vibrating sleeve options: the Vibro Lady and Vibro Butt, each modeled after the user’s preferred orifice. And while the Pocket Pussy that Fleshlight is most known for requires you to provide all the motion yourself, the Vibro Lady and Vibro Butt include three replaceable vibrating bullets for effortless stimulation. They cost $89.95 each.
Lovehoney’s Ignite 20 is one of our favorite penis vibrators — and it’s only $34.99. With a ribbed interior and 20 vibration functions, the Ignite 20 focuses all of its energy on the penis’s head for added pleasure during masturbation or foreplay.
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