If you’ve already boarded the anti-shower sex train, think again. 

This logistically challenging location has all the makings of a steamy night (pun intended). You just need to take a few extra precautions so you don’t slip or lose out on lubrication.

Bring your next session outside the bedroom and into the bathroom with these shower sex tips, tricks, and positions to learn just how great this setting gets. 

Why try shower sex?

Shower sex gets a bad rap, but it's fun, naughty, and a game-changer when you do it right. A shower makeout combined with warm water and your partner’s bare skin puts a fun spin on intimacy, and you can also bring in your favorite waterproof toys for some relaxing me-time. 

Shower sex is also super convenient. You're getting clean together while you get dirty, which counts as a chore, quality time, and sexy time. A quickie while you scrub down is a great way to connect when your schedule is jam-packed and you're exhausted — especially because fatigue and stress are libido-killers. 

Getting it on in a new place is an easy way to add excitement to your sex life, and the shower counts — whether you’re in an exclusive partnership or casually dating. But hooking up in the shower is both sexy and slippery, so be careful. It does come with its risks. And if shower fantasies really don't do it for you, there are tons of other ways to spice things up, like car sex or phone sex. 

How to have shower sex: 8 tips 

Mastering shower sex requires trial and error, but it's still fun to practice. It may not look or feel like something out of the movies right away — or even ever — but with a few tips and tricks, you can get pretty close. Here's how to make the most of doing the deed in the shower:

1. Crank up the heat 

A lukewarm shower doesn't cut it for shower sex. Find a cozy temperature that suits both of you, because being too hot or cold can be super uncomfortable during the act. This helps you stay nice and toasty. 

2. Communicate effectively

A shower is very close quarters, so discuss what you're comfortable with, how you can work together to stay safe, and any new things you want to try if you're a shower sex regular. Ongoing dialogue helps ensure the experience is fun for everyone involved. 

3. Buy a non-slip mat

When it comes to shower sex, safety comes first. Use a non-slip mat to prevent accidents so you can focus on the pleasure at hand instead of just trying not to fall down. A non-slip mat is an affordable investment that prevents falls and goes a long way toward having a great time. 

4. Use soap wisely

Lathering each other may be sexy, but soap isn't lube and can cause irritation if it enters the vagina or anus. Use it for foreplay and sensual massage, but make the switch to sexual lubricant for penetration. Another tip: Rinse the shower well after you soap up so you don’t leave slippery residue for next time.

5. Use lots of lube 

Water makes things wet, but it doesn't provide adequate lubrication for penetrative sex. Use a waterproof, silicone-based lube to make everything from fingering to anal and vaginal sex comfortable and friction-free, and don't be shy to use plenty of it. Avoid water-based lubes, which will wash away. 

6. Be prepared

Before shower sex, take a few minutes to clear out those shampoo bottles and items you don't need. A clutter-free shower leaves more space for exploring different sex positions and moving together in different ways. 

7. Try a footrest 

Stable footing isn't just for shaving your legs. It makes shower sex more accessible and safer, so try incorporating a designated spot to rest your foot. Having a footrest means trying new angles and positions without worrying as much about your balance and comfort. 

8. Use waterproof sex toys

Using waterproof sex toys in the shower is extra exciting. From dildos that suction to the wall to waterproof vibrators, these toys take aquatic adventures to the next level. Triple-check that your sex toys are waterproof before beginning to avoid any mishaps. And don’t forget that your showerhead can be a fun sex toy in its own right.

7 best shower sex positions 

Shower sex positions can be a bit of a balancing act, but many of them are fun and surprisingly intimate. If you're going to give it a shot, here are some of the best positions to go for: 

1. Standing doggy style

To indulge in this classic shower sex position, lean forward and place your hands against the wall while your partner enters you from behind. The wall provides stability, and the standing position makes it easier to keep your balance while focusing on what feels good. This position is perfect for vaginal and anal sex, and a little reach-around never hurts to help you achieve orgasm. 

2. The chairman

The chairman is a fun variation of reverse cowgirl that's perfect for the shower. Have your partner sit on the shower floor or on a shower bench. Straddle them facing either way to enjoy deep penetration. This position gives you control of the depth, pace, and intensity, and you won't slip. 

3. The wraparound

Lean against the shower wall, and have your partner stand before you. Wrap one leg around their waist, or if this feels like too much, ask your partner to hold your thigh or the back of your knee (they can hold onto your thigh for extra support). This intimate, face-to-face position allows access to each other’s erogenous zones, and you'll feel secure. 

4. Get a leg up 

This shower sex position is excellent for oral. Stand with one leg on the edge of the tub or a shower bench, and have your partner kneel or squat between your legs. This position allows for easy access but can be tricky with wet surfaces, so be extra careful. 

5. The hanging garden 

The hanging garden is an advanced position that lets your partner take complete control. Have them pick you up and hold you while you wrap your legs around their waist. This steamy set-up requires a little extra muscle, but you'll feel super-sexy, guaranteed. Being face-to-face amps up the intimacy. 

6. The love chair 

This position needs a shower bench, so it's not appropriate for all bathrooms. Have your partner sit on the shower bench and sit on their lap, reverse cowgirl style. Ride your partner however feels good to you and use your hands to stimulate your penis, clitoris, or partner's body. It’s the perfect balance of steamy and intimate.

7. All hands on deck 

This simple position foregoes penetration for sensual touch. Sit or stand facing each other underneath the running water and use your hands to explore each other's bodies. You can touch each other and yourselves however you prefer and enjoy the warmth and slickness of the water. All hands on deck is low-risk and maximum pleasure. 

Is shower sex safe?

Getting it on in the shower is adventurous — but has a few safety considerations. Sex can get a little too wet and slippery when water is involved, so it's essential to approach this steamy scenario with caution. These tips will help ensure you and your partner have a sexy and safe experience: 

Always use condoms 

Having sex in the shower doesn't make you immune to sexually transmitted infections (STIs), so use barrier methods. Condoms are an easy way to keep penetrative and oral sex safe, and you can also use female condoms or dental dams in the shower. 

Consent is non-negotiable

Shower sex isn't for everyone, and that's okay. Enthusiastic consent is vital, so ensure everyone is entirely on board before you get to it. Discuss likes, dislikes, and boundaries to keep everyone on the same page. There’s nothing wrong with deciding you’re not into it after you start.

Beware of slippery exits 

Safely exiting the shower can be as tricky as shower sex itself. Wet floors and carelessly tossed towels are slip hazards, so take it slow when you're getting out and heading to your post-sex cuddle spot.

Dry off properly 

Damp environments can lead to bacterial or fungal growth, including in and around your genitals. Dry off thoroughly after shower sex to avoid uncomfortable infections like yeast infections. 

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