Whether you love Valentine’s Day or look at happy couples with scorn, there’s someone who deserves a gift.

Maybe it’s your partner, your favorite casual hookup, or just yourself (yes, you deserve it). No matter who you love, a sexy Valentine's Day gift will bring you closer, so pass on the boring heart-shaped cookie or roses in favor of something steamier. Here’s our official guide to sexy gifts for him, her, and everyone. 

8 sexy Valentine's Day gifts for a partner 

This holiday is all about love, so why not surprise your partner or friend (with benefits, obviously) something sexy? Gifts like sex wedges, vibrators, and massage oil keep on giving and giving, if you catch our drift, and are more creative than a run-of-the-mill bouquet. 

Planning a sexy Valentine's Day is the perfect opportunity to turn up the heat in your relationship. From playful to sensual and even lickable, these sexy gifts for her, him, and nonbinary people will take the guesswork out of your shopping. 

1. A sex wedge

Reach all the angles you’ve been fantasizing about with a versatile sex pillow. They’re comfortable, often made from high-density foam, and help you stay cozy while reaching deeper penetration. The Liberator Sex Position Wedge is a great option. It comes in a romantic pink shade that's perfect for Valentine's Day and has unzippable washable covers for easy clean-up. 

2. Edible massage oil 

Edible massage oil transforms a thoughtful massage into an indulgent, sensory experience suitable for a holiday celebration. Choose from a variety of erotic and enticing flavors and use it during foreplay before things get hot and heavy. The Earthy Body edible massage oils are a good place to start.

3. Massage candle 

If your partner loves massage, an oil candle is another great gift option. Set the scene for romance with a candle that melts into luxurious massage oil as it burns, filling the room with fragrance (and heat). Pour the oil carefully on your partner's body (let it cool first!) and rub it down. The Burn Massage Candle Trio from Ritual Burn Co. has three small candles so your significant other can pick and choose their favorites. 

4. Sexy lingerie 

No list of sexy Valentine's Day ideas is complete without lingerie. Gifting some scandalous undies is classic and effective, so treat your partner to anything from a lace bodysuit to silk boxer shorts. Choose a type of lingerie to suit their style and preferences. This teddy from Savage x Fenty is a crowd-pleaser, but a slip from For Love & Lemons is also a great option.

5. Kinky board game 

Bring out your partner's playful side by gifting them a kinky truth-or-dare game. These games are fun ways to stay inside and explore boundaries in a consensual environment, and they also make sexy gifts for anniversaries. Uncommon Goods' sexy truth-or-dare games open up conversations, reveal hidden desires, and get people laughing — and nothing's sexier than that.

6. Edible body paint 

Unleash your artistic side with edible body paint. This gift lets you and your partner turn each other's bodies into desserts, and this date idea is sure to win points for creativity. Use the Shunga Aphrodisiac Edible Body Paint to explore each other in a new and intimate way — oral sex is optional but encouraged. 

7. A sex toy 

When it comes to Valentine's Day gifts for couples, you can't beat sex toys. Spice things up by gifting your partner a couple's sex toy. Designed for mutual enjoyment, these gadgets range from massagers you can wear during sex to cock rings and beyond. You can also choose a luxury sex toy or smart sex toy for your partner's alone time, like the We-Vibe Chorus. 

8. Bath pillow 

A bath pillow is a simple yet luxurious addition to your partner's self-care routine. Pair this gift idea with bath bombs, oils, salts, or other products to turn their ordinary bath into a relaxing retreat. Extra points if you set up the bathroom for them and start your Valentine's Day date off with some sensual rest. The 100 SENSES bath pillow is one that keeps your partner’s head dry while they lounge.  

5 sexy Valentine's Day gifts for yourself 

Valentine's Day isn't just for couples. It's the perfect occasion to treat yourself to something special and embrace self-love — whatever that means to you. Whether you're single, in a relationship, or somewhere in between, these sexy Valentine's Day gifts for yourself are all about indulging in your own pleasure, unapologetically. 

1. A luxurious vibrator

Your little bullet vibrator gets the job done, but Valentine’s Day is the perfect time to treat yourself to something better. Find a high-end vibrator that excites you, and if you need advice, the Crave Vesper 2 is a great option. It’s a truly stunning toy that doubles as a necklace. Perfect for a clitoral orgasm on the go, this discreet sex toy is available in rose gold, monochromatic black, and 24-karat gold. It has a slim and smooth design, and it's made of body-safe stainless steel. The best part is that nobody will know your cute new necklace is also your best friend in the bedroom.

2. Silk bedding 

Turn your bedroom into a sanctuary of comfort with silk bedding. Splurging on high-quality fabric is an enjoyable way to pamper your skin and add indulgence to your nighttime routine, and silk is luxurious, cool, and lightweight. LilySilk has some relatively affordable options in tons of cute colors.

3. Luxury lube 

The benefits of masturbation are endless, so why not gift yourself some fancy lube for a smoother experience? High-quality products like Sliquid Silver add some luxurious slip to your penetrative fun. This lube is oil-based, making it great for anal masturbation and prostate stimulation if you're into that, but Sliquid also offers hybrid and water-based products that feel great.

4. Pole dancing class 

Sign up for a pole dancing class to empower your body. Pole dancing is a fantastic workout, and it's a fun and sensual way to celebrate and improve your strength, flexibility, and sensuality. Body & Pole has solid online classes — you just have to buy the pole. 

5. Erotica 

Whether you're new to erotica or have a handful of favorite creators, treat yourself to some erotic literature or audio for Valentine's Day. This type of ethical porn is the best gift for exploring kinks and fantasies on your terms, and if you're staying indoors for the holiday, there's no better way to spend it than reading or listening in bed (maybe with your new vibrator). 

Gift Quinn for Valentine's Day  

A subscription to Quinn's audio erotica is the ultimate romantic gift for yourself or your partner. Immersive and intimate, the Quinn platform offers all different types of erotic content, from LGBTQ+ and kink playlists to steamy romances from diverse and talented creators. There are even audios made specifically for couples.  

A Quinn subscription is the gift that keeps on giving, offering new stories to explore throughout the year, alone or together. To access thousands of narrated sex stories, guided masturbation sessions, and much more, download the Quinn app for iOS or Android.