There's an intimacy frontier that you might not have explored yet: the nipple orgasm. 

Intriguing and surprisingly powerful, this sexual phenomenon might seem unlikely. But it is actually possible to reach climax with above-the-belt touch.

While not everyone can orgasm through nipple play, the select people who can have let a few of their secrets out. Try one of these tricks next time you're ready for a new experience. 

What is a nipple orgasm, exactly?

Nipplegasms aren't just an urban legend. They're real, and they're actually pretty accessible. A nipple orgasm is exactly what it sounds like: sexual climax that comes from nipple stimulation instead of, or along with, genital stimulation.

While many associate orgasms with genital stimulation, the body is full of erogenous zones. The nipples are among the most sensitive — and for some individuals, stimulating them can even lead to orgasm.

This type of orgasm takes more than just light flicks or touches. It needs technique, and from soft caresses to vibrating sex toys, you’ll find that everyone’s nipples react differently. For some, nipple orgasm might be difficult to reach. But it’s worth it to try. 

Your nipples are packed with nerve endings, and your breasts can actually get bigger during sexual arousal — much like the clitoris. Scientists have explored both the female and male nipple orgasm, with one study finding that nipple stimulation increased sexual arousal in 82% of women and 52% of men. Taking it further can lead to the big O if you find the right techniques for you.

How is a nipple orgasm possible?

Studies show that nipple massage lights up the same part of your brain that reacts to genital stimulation. Add the release of oxytocin from the hypothalamus — a happy hormone that boosts emotional connection — and it makes sense that nipple stimulation and orgasms can go hand in hand. 

You don’t need to be in a relationship with someone to have a nipple orgasm, but the emotional bond can help. Feeling close to someone can amplify sexual sensations, creating an environment where the brain, our most powerful sexual organ, perceives these heightened signals as orgasmic. In some cases, the combination of physical and mental stimulation provides enough pleasure to tip the scales and cause a nipplegasm. 

What does a nipple orgasm feel like?

Just like genital climax, the nipple orgasm is unique and varied. While some say it feels very similar to their regular O, others experience powerful, pleasurable vibrations that pulse throughout the body. From stand-alone nipple orgasms to blended genital and nipple orgasms, anything can happen. Sometimes, nipple orgasms can even trigger genital ones. It depends on the person and the partner. 

To really know what a nipplegasm feels like, you have to experience it for yourself. Sexual sensations feel different for everyone, and one person’s climax could end up being completely different from yours — and there’s nothing wrong with that.

Can anyone have a nipple orgasm?

Nipple orgasms don't discriminate. Anyone can have them, but it's worth noting that things like breast surgeries or piercings might impact how sensitive your nipples are. If your chest is already super responsive, you might be more likely to experience this type of orgasm.

Don’t feel discouraged if it doesn’t happen for you. It’s true that anyone can experience a nipplegasm, but that’s hypothetical. The real experience varies. There’s a chance you might not have the same winning combination of arousal and nipple sensitivity, and it might take some time to reach the final destination. Be patient and have fun. Genital orgasms are still exciting, so you can’t really lose.

How to have a nipple orgasm: 6 tips

Whether you’re with a partner or riding solo, a little nipple play goes a long way, and even the journey of trying is a guaranteed good time. Pluck up your adventurous spirit, start slow, and try these tips: 

1. Get in the mood

Create a relaxed, intimate atmosphere with anything from soft lighting to your favorite playlist in the background — whatever turns you on. This sensory ambiance will get your mind and body into the right state for receiving pleasure. 

2. Take your time

Nipple stimulation isn't a race. Instead of rushing toward the finish line, allow the sensations to build up and simmer. Prolonged stimulation can heighten arousal, and a slow burn can be as exciting as a quickie. Focus on the journey instead of the destination. Putting too much stress on the “main event” could kill the mood. 

3. Tell them what feels good (and what doesn't)

If you're playing with a partner, communicate with them. What works for one person might not work for another, and only you know what feels right for your body. Tell your partner if something feels like too much or not enough, and create a sexual experience that's fun and satisfying for you both. 

4. Try other erogenous zones 

As sensitive and responsive as the nipples can be, stimulating them alongside other erogenous zones can take the experience to the next level. Try gently stroking or nibbling the areola, inner thighs, or neck — anywhere that feels good to you. And don’t forget the foreplay.

5. Get massages

A full-body massage can be the perfect appetizer for nipple play. It's an effective way to boost blood flow, soothe tense muscles, and prepare your body for what's to come (pun intended). Use a warm, scented massage oil to create a more sensual experience. Bonus: You can use oil or lotions (or even lube) for breast massage, too. 

6. Use toys

Many sex toys are specially designed for above-the-belt play. Nipple vibrators provide consistent, intense stimulation, while nipple clamps can be a thrilling mix of pain and pleasure. Feather ticklers offer a much softer touch if that's your thing. Experiment to figure out which toys turn you on the most.

Use Quinn to continue exploring

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